When you join Out & Out, we contact you to have a chat – to get to know you and to find out what you would like to get out of the club, not least the sort of people you are hoping to meet. We suggest appropriate events and you are free to choose as many or as few as you like. Our events are well attended so we never put you under pressure to accept invitations.

A typical lunch or dinner starts with a drinks reception. Guests are greeted by one of our hosts (usually the same person who carried out your initial interview) and are introduced to fellow members. Our hosts’ raison d’etre is to ensure that you have a great time, and to be there if you have any queries. The atmosphere is warm and welcoming and very buzzy! You will be invited to sit at tables with pre-assigned place cards in a private dining room. What happens next is up to you! Guests normally describe the Out & Out experience as like being at a friend’s dinner party. Often, we will move people around before dessert to give you a chance to meet more people. After dinner, you are free to socialise into the early hours! Our hosts always sit apart to keep a discreet eye on proceedings and to allow you the opportunity to offer feedback / requests whenever necessary.

We regularly contact members between events to seek feedback. Should you wish to contact another member at this stage we are happy to pass on your details. Rest assured, we will not pass on your details without your express permission.